Quote in-between…

Singapore Kindness Movement, www.kindness.sg, presents this quote:

 

“Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for kindness.” – Seneca

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There is kindness in all of us; let us make it our baseline attitude to be kind and courteous.

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From TODAY, Voices – Thursday, 23-April-2009

Quote in-between…

Singapore Kindness Movement, www.kindness.sg, presents this quote:

 

“Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for kindness.” – Seneca

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There is kindness in all of us; let us make it our baseline attitude to be kind and courteous.

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From TODAY, Voices – Thursday, 23-April-2009

Nothing wrong with Victorians

Letter from Zaveed Husref

I REFER to “What’s wrong with today’s kids?” (April 20) from Ms Trina Tan Ker Wei.

I am truly proud of my Victorian experience, having been fortunate enough to attend Victoria School and Victoria Junior College.

I am upset at Ms Tan’s narrow-mindedness. She insulted generations of Victorians by implying Victoria School has failed “in upholding its school mission of producing well-mannered, considerate men with good social graces” through judging the actions of a handful of Victorians.

Allow me first, to correct her understanding of Victoria’s mission — “A Victorian is ultimately a Gentleman, a Professional and a Sportsman who makes tangible contributions to his family, work, community and nation”. The inability of the students to clear their trays of food at McDonald’s is not indicative of Victoria School’s failure.

Perhaps at most it does show a lack of consideration to the crew members who had to clean up after them, but might I remind Ms Tan, however, that clearing trays are part of crew members’ jobscope. Considering the ever increasing prices of fast-food outlets that rival those of restaurants, how different is leaving a tray for a crew member to clear from that of a waiter clearing your plates at a restaurant? Furthermore, how many Singaporeans actually do clear up after they are done with their meals? Not many, I assure you.

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From Meng Chye
I would like to tell all Victorians out there that we should welcome such criticisms. As our school song goes, “For others came, before and went, and carried to the world, Victoria’s name, and our intent, to keep her flag unfurled.”

From Joo Peng
Boys will be boys.

From Samuel
The fact, sadly and truly, is that hardly anyone clears up after themselves, and you know it.

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Clearing one’s own trays is an individual choice, usually done only when it is convenient to do so, and enforcing this act and blaming the teacher seems almost an Orwellian ideal to me. I do believe these boys were engrossed in their conversations, and when it was time to leave, absent-mindedly cleared some of their food and then left as a group. This momentary lapse of consideration does not make them failures.

Rather, it shows that despite their ability to win medals around the world while consistently coming in tops in the school rankings year after year, that Victorians are nonetheless human, and should be allowed the occasional lack of perfection without being subjected to such harsh judgement.

The writer is an undergraduate at the National University of Singapore.

From TODAY, Voices – Wednesday, 22-April-2009

Nothing wrong with Victorians

Letter from Zaveed Husref

I REFER to “What’s wrong with today’s kids?” (April 20) from Ms Trina Tan Ker Wei.

I am truly proud of my Victorian experience, having been fortunate enough to attend Victoria School and Victoria Junior College.

I am upset at Ms Tan’s narrow-mindedness. She insulted generations of Victorians by implying Victoria School has failed “in upholding its school mission of producing well-mannered, considerate men with good social graces” through judging the actions of a handful of Victorians.

Allow me first, to correct her understanding of Victoria’s mission — “A Victorian is ultimately a Gentleman, a Professional and a Sportsman who makes tangible contributions to his family, work, community and nation”. The inability of the students to clear their trays of food at McDonald’s is not indicative of Victoria School’s failure.

Perhaps at most it does show a lack of consideration to the crew members who had to clean up after them, but might I remind Ms Tan, however, that clearing trays are part of crew members’ jobscope. Considering the ever increasing prices of fast-food outlets that rival those of restaurants, how different is leaving a tray for a crew member to clear from that of a waiter clearing your plates at a restaurant? Furthermore, how many Singaporeans actually do clear up after they are done with their meals? Not many, I assure you.

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From Meng Chye
I would like to tell all Victorians out there that we should welcome such criticisms. As our school song goes, “For others came, before and went, and carried to the world, Victoria’s name, and our intent, to keep her flag unfurled.”

From Joo Peng
Boys will be boys.

From Samuel
The fact, sadly and truly, is that hardly anyone clears up after themselves, and you know it.

www.todayonline.com/voices
Read more letters and comments about the issue
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Clearing one’s own trays is an individual choice, usually done only when it is convenient to do so, and enforcing this act and blaming the teacher seems almost an Orwellian ideal to me. I do believe these boys were engrossed in their conversations, and when it was time to leave, absent-mindedly cleared some of their food and then left as a group. This momentary lapse of consideration does not make them failures.

Rather, it shows that despite their ability to win medals around the world while consistently coming in tops in the school rankings year after year, that Victorians are nonetheless human, and should be allowed the occasional lack of perfection without being subjected to such harsh judgement.

The writer is an undergraduate at the National University of Singapore.

From TODAY, Voices – Wednesday, 22-April-2009

What’s wrong with today’s kids?

STATE OF OUR STUDENTS

Teacher in top boys’ school set poor example

Letter from Trina Tan Ker Wei

I WAS at the McDonald’s outlet in Marine Cove on April 14, from about 4.30pm to 5.30pm.

During that time, a group of between 10 and 20 secondary school boys in Victoria School (VS) uniform entered together with a lady who I assumed was their teacher, and occupied a long table and some “bar” seats.

From their loud cheers, I gathered the teacher was giving them a treat. The calls to confirm orders and the general rowdy chatter were a little disruptive but I was okay with it.

What got to me, though, was how the VS boys did not clear their trays when they got up to leave. Some placed their empty drink cups and wrappers on the trays, but no one bothered to empty the filled trays.

The trash bin was next to the tables they were occupying — at most three steps away. The appalling thing was seeing how the teacher did not bother to ask the boys to clear their trays — she just stood there talking to the boys.

Then they all left. The area they had occupied looked as if a tornado had swept through it. There were used napkins, burger wrappers and empty drink cups left here and there.

I sympathised with the McDonald’s crew member who came to clear the mess with a look of helpless despair on his face.

I am saddened by the behaviour of the VS boys and the inability of their teacher to use that moment to teach her students manners. Victoria School appears to have failed in upholding its school mission of producing well-mannered, considerate men with good social graces.

My mother, a proud former VS girl, was surprised at the incident and felt the boys were tarnishing the school’s name.

If the younger generation cannot master basic manners, I do not care if they are winning academic awards around the world — as far as I am concerned, they are failures.

From TODAY, Voices – 20-April-2009

What’s wrong with today’s kids?

STATE OF OUR STUDENTS

Teacher in top boys’ school set poor example

Letter from Trina Tan Ker Wei

I WAS at the McDonald’s outlet in Marine Cove on April 14, from about 4.30pm to 5.30pm.

During that time, a group of between 10 and 20 secondary school boys in Victoria School (VS) uniform entered together with a lady who I assumed was their teacher, and occupied a long table and some “bar” seats.

From their loud cheers, I gathered the teacher was giving them a treat. The calls to confirm orders and the general rowdy chatter were a little disruptive but I was okay with it.

What got to me, though, was how the VS boys did not clear their trays when they got up to leave. Some placed their empty drink cups and wrappers on the trays, but no one bothered to empty the filled trays.

The trash bin was next to the tables they were occupying — at most three steps away. The appalling thing was seeing how the teacher did not bother to ask the boys to clear their trays — she just stood there talking to the boys.

Then they all left. The area they had occupied looked as if a tornado had swept through it. There were used napkins, burger wrappers and empty drink cups left here and there.

I sympathised with the McDonald’s crew member who came to clear the mess with a look of helpless despair on his face.

I am saddened by the behaviour of the VS boys and the inability of their teacher to use that moment to teach her students manners. Victoria School appears to have failed in upholding its school mission of producing well-mannered, considerate men with good social graces.

My mother, a proud former VS girl, was surprised at the incident and felt the boys were tarnishing the school’s name.

If the younger generation cannot master basic manners, I do not care if they are winning academic awards around the world — as far as I am concerned, they are failures.

From TODAY, Voices – 20-April-2009