From my Paper, My Say
THURSDAY JANUARY 8, 2009
FATHERS and mothers have an equal role to play in bringing up their children.
It is true that, when it comes to fathering, Asians differ from their British and American counterparts in style.
Asian fathers place the imparting of values at the centre of their child-rearing methods, and introduce their children to religion at an early age.
They also teach their children the importance of family values and being law-abiding.
This way, values are passed down through the generations.
While Asian fathers can be strict, they are also a nurturing force, preparing their children for the challenges of adulthood.
In Asia, the moral dimension of fatherhood is unmistakable.
Traditionally, Asian fathers are seen as custodians of the family, the clan and society.
In earlier times, fathers were viewed as the enforcers of morals and values.
They were seen as distant figures who wielded enormous power over their families.
Wives were expected to defer to husbands in matters of child-rearing, and a father could still have moral authority over his children even after they had become adults.
Today, it is generally agreed that men and women should no longer be regarded as “opposites” as both share equal responsibility for their children.
It is important to remember that mothers and fathers bring different strengths to their roles, which complement each other.
The effects of attachment to one’s children are wide-ranging and long-lasting.
Studies have shown that fathers who spent time with their infants and had a positive attitude were more likely to have babies who were strongly attached to them.
It also promoted the child’s well-being, perceptual abilities and ability for social interaction, even at a young age.
Surveys state that children whose fathers are involved in their education are likely to do well in school.
In addition, these children will also participate actively in extra-curricular activities.
Therefore, the importance of a father’s role in a child’s development should not be discounted.
Mr Nur Suhardi Mohamed
From my Paper, My Say
THURSDAY JANUARY 8, 2009
FATHERS and mothers have an equal role to play in bringing up their children.
It is true that, when it comes to fathering, Asians differ from their British and American counterparts in style.
Asian fathers place the imparting of values at the centre of their child-rearing methods, and introduce their children to religion at an early age.
They also teach their children the importance of family values and being law-abiding.
This way, values are passed down through the generations.
While Asian fathers can be strict, they are also a nurturing force, preparing their children for the challenges of adulthood.
In Asia, the moral dimension of fatherhood is unmistakable.
Traditionally, Asian fathers are seen as custodians of the family, the clan and society.
In earlier times, fathers were viewed as the enforcers of morals and values.
They were seen as distant figures who wielded enormous power over their families.
Wives were expected to defer to husbands in matters of child-rearing, and a father could still have moral authority over his children even after they had become adults.
Today, it is generally agreed that men and women should no longer be regarded as “opposites” as both share equal responsibility for their children.
It is important to remember that mothers and fathers bring different strengths to their roles, which complement each other.
The effects of attachment to one’s children are wide-ranging and long-lasting.
Studies have shown that fathers who spent time with their infants and had a positive attitude were more likely to have babies who were strongly attached to them.
It also promoted the child’s well-being, perceptual abilities and ability for social interaction, even at a young age.
Surveys state that children whose fathers are involved in their education are likely to do well in school.
In addition, these children will also participate actively in extra-curricular activities.
Therefore, the importance of a father’s role in a child’s development should not be discounted.
Mr Nur Suhardi Mohamed
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I was almost convinced by these sites, which is actually one and the same:
http://www.secrets-book.com/home.html
http://www.internetwealthscams.com/
Until I searched on and found this:
http://www.affhelper.com/opinions/ultimate-wealth-package.html
http://hubpages.com/hub/aPlaceForProfits
http://www.affhelper.com/blog/2007/08/09/easy-cash-funnels-launched/
Others still claim legality and veracity, but still the same MLM and referral concepts, etc, is at work:
http://www.bobmarketing.com/wealth-tool-box-scam/
http://www.passportmentors.com/passport_to_wealth_scam.htm
http://auctionrookies.com/ty-coughlin-reverse-funnel-system/
http://wealthsecretsuncovered.com/
http://www.internetwealth.com/system/
http://www.squidoo.com/internet-wealth-system-review
The point is that they sell, you buy - they make money. So how do YOU make money yourself???
I'm sticking with Google ads. Perhaps a few more tweaks and enhancements, and without spending a single cent, I may see some numbers. At least I'm not in a hurry, and I can wait for the dollars to come by at the opportune time.
By the way, does anybody know anything about Pawel Reszka and his products, Google Manipulator, Easy PPC Cash, etc?
I sure would love to hear good and bad, so it is balanced news!
I was looking up some ways on how to make money online. I already know about Google ads, adsense, etc., so I was thinking if there are other ways. There are, but beware that you don't get scammed. Search up very well any company or group or articles that will say otherwise; (this remindes me, hear what the 'devil's advocate' has to say). In these days of easy internet scams, the 'lie and deception' we hear or read is like an 'absolute truth' that is so temptingly easy to believe (like a fish swallowing the hook, line and sinker), but exercise more caution - search on with the company/group name + keywords like 'scam', 'legal', 'hoax', etc.
I was almost convinced by these sites, which is actually one and the same:
http://www.secrets-book.com/home.html
http://www.internetwealthscams.com/
Until I searched on and found this:
http://www.affhelper.com/opinions/ultimate-wealth-package.html
http://hubpages.com/hub/aPlaceForProfits
http://www.affhelper.com/blog/2007/08/09/easy-cash-funnels-launched/
Others still claim legality and veracity, but still the same MLM and referral concepts, etc, is at work:
http://www.bobmarketing.com/wealth-tool-box-scam/
http://www.passportmentors.com/passport_to_wealth_scam.htm
http://auctionrookies.com/ty-coughlin-reverse-funnel-system/
http://wealthsecretsuncovered.com/
http://www.internetwealth.com/system/
http://www.squidoo.com/internet-wealth-system-review
The point is that they sell, you buy - they make money. So how do YOU make money yourself???
I'm sticking with Google ads. Perhaps a few more tweaks and enhancements, and without spending a single cent, I may see some numbers. At least I'm not in a hurry, and I can wait for the dollars to come by at the opportune time.
By the way, does anybody know anything about Pawel Reszka and his products, Google Manipulator, Easy PPC Cash, etc?
I sure would love to hear good and bad, so it is balanced news!
> What did I say? So here is the first reply… read on…
From TODAY, Voices
Monday January 5, 2009
When life gives you lemons
• Make lemonade •
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Letter from Loh Sheng Hng
I REFER to “School’s no fun” (Jan 2).
As my father was on a job attachment in Arizona, I had the privilege of experiencing American education for almost two-and-a-half years. In Singapore, there are tests, followed by exams and in the end, your conduct — good and bad — is written in your report book or testimonial.
In my school in America, projects are discussed daily. Rather than giving a grade, teachers encourage students to improve on their own basis. Students are also allowed their own space for initiative and imagination.
Parents play an important role in American education. Teachers have friendly contact with them and they frequently volunteer to teach things that contribute to the overall holistic development of students. My mother helped out in such an event. She came to my school and taught basic Chinese numerals to the American students. All of us enjoyed it.
A friendly teacher-to-student relationship is also maintained. Teachers write little notes of thanks and welcomes when you give them a gift or join their classes. These convey sincerity and mean a lot to the students.
Field trips to places also make up a significant component of the student’s time in school. Students learn by using their five senses, such as by touching the plant, smelling the flower, tasting the fruit, hearing the birds and seeing the beauty of nature.
In Mathematics class, fractions are taught by using chocolate bars, which add a sense of fun to the class.
In the Singapore context, students study with textbooks or worksheets. But I feel that the Singapore education is becoming more open-minded, giving more space for a student’s independent learning, which will be beneficial in years to come.
The writer is a 13-year-old student at Hwa Chong Institution.
