Just as it is again the hot topic in the news, in the dailies, and even in the ministry itself, the kindness and courtesy campaign is again coming into the forefront.
There has been some articles in Today paper (I've not been looking at the myPaper daily lately) about the courtesy observance in other countries, and here in Singapore as well, and as they compare how kindness and courtesy is practiced here and in other countries, and there are varied opinions.
Take for example, the previous topic of caning in the schools, in every student's sight. Some say it is actually detrimental to the student's psychological wellness, but others say that it is more on imparting a warning signal, and is therefore, a deterrent to further misbehaviours.
What do I say? As a father, I say that kindness and courtesy can only be acquired; it can be learned, maybe. But as the saying goes, "values are caught, not taught", which means that similar to "mother tongue", caught by the child, and naturally spoken without any physical or mental wrestling and incapacity, courtesy and kindness also starts from home.
I have seen so many old folks, who, when offered seats, are able to accept the offer with gratitude, whether by plain gesture, or by expressing it, although sometimes we don't exactly understand the language by which they speak, or to decline the offer yet graciously at that.
And equally, I have seen locals who ignore you totally, especially parents who are with their small kids.
This observation confirms that saying - it all starts from home.
As for the news, you can read it here.
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